When it comes to dealing with heartbreak I have not met a person to date who can say that is was easy. In fact, most people who I personally know who went through it did some rather bizarre unproductive and unhealthy actions in response to it.
You are genuinly trying very hard to move on in your life. But you are going around in circles, NOTHING seems to make sense and deep down you know it is best to try and FORGET ABOUT YOUR EXS. The problem is that no matter how hard you try you can’t seem to get the memories and pictures of your relationship out of your mind. The question is how to forget about Exs?
Keep Yourself Busy. Do the things that you neglected to do because you were busy with someone else before. Finish your project that you left idle for almost a month now. Open that novel where your bookmark has been on the same chapter for already a year. Do all the things you have been dying to do before but just did not have the time. Organize an out of town trip with your friends or try hosting a party. Be with happy people and absorb their vibes.
Kill the rap beats! They can be very toxic to you at this time. They only serve to stir up your emotions causing you to fall back into misery and despair. This is not a good strategy for dealing with heartbreak at any time!
I know what your thinking. You want to tell me by doing nothing NOTHING will happen and I am here to tell you that you are wrong. Depending on the love bond that was created when you were together, NOT THE TIME involved, the love bond itself…this will be the very key to getting your lover back.
You may think that you were born for each other, when you finally find each other along life’s thorny paths, but the fact remains that your partner would have had someone in their life before you came along. They would have loved someone else too, and have thought at that time to make it last. Maybe it wasn’t that strong as it is with you, but still it was at one point of time, an important relationship. Never, never try to drag that part of their lives into your discussions and arguments. If they have revealed some vulnerable feelings regarding that old flame, then never make a mockery of it in your less decent moments. It will kill the beauty of your own relationship with them; maybe even fill them with revulsion about you as a person. You may lose that love sooner than it was meant to be.
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